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A Successful Partnership
Is A happy And Fulfilling Partnership That Lasts A Life Long
There are lots of different kinds of partnerships. In this article I mean this one and only partnership with this very special partner most people wish to have their lifetime long.
Too many people jump from their parent’s house into a partnership, hoping that it will be happy and lasting ever after. But this is far from the truth.
In several countries of this world 2/3 of people who marry today get devorced during the first years of marriage, and this is very sad. Some of these marriages could have become happy a life long, would the two partners have been prepared better or would they have prepared themselves better for it.
How to prepare yourself for a successful partnership which will stay happy a life long?
1. Get to love and respect yourself more than anyone else!
Yes, you read right. Love and respect yourself more than anyone else, even more as the person you have been fallen in love or will fall in love.
If you don’t love yourself, how should anyone else love you?
If you love another person more as yourself, this other person will very probably stop loving you or the love will at least decrease.
If you think about this a little, you should understand.
If you love yourself more than anyone else, your love is strong and you must not worry, you will be able to love your partner more than enough and you will love other people more as if you would love yourself less.
Love, respect for yourself is so important. Self esteem is part of this. And when you continue this thought, your whole life is part of that concept. If you love yourself and care a lot about yourself, you will be successful in all aspects of your life - in your private and in your business life.
To love yourself more than anyone else is imparative for a successful and happy partnership.
2. Be Happy without having a reason
If you are happy without a reason, you will be happier if you have a reason. This has to do with the frequency in which you vibrate.
If you are unhappy or not so happy and you say that you would be happy if you have found your life-partner or if you could be together with this person you have fallen in love, you should not be surprised that you are and stay alone. As long as you are unhappy, your frequency of vibration is low and this you radiate. People who are on your low wavelength will surround you = all unhappy people!
To get amongst happy people you have to increase your frequency of vibration which you can only do if you feel happiness. If you have no reason to be happy, you have to find one. Seriously, this world is full of reasons to be happy. You only have to open your eyes and look around: The nature is wonderful, the smile of a child, reading a book which interests you or looking for something which is beautiful online.
A wonderful way to make yourself feeling happy is making someone else happy. Smile to the next person who crosses your way, bring your mother some flowers, come with some sweets to the office and pass them around, help an elderly lady carrying her shopping bag,.... Think about what you can do to help someone or make someone happy. Definitely you will feel good about it.
Make a list with all which you enjoy:
Meeting for a chat with friends
Going to the theatre
Having a nice dinner
Calling a loved one
Making yourself comfortable and reading a book or watching TV
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Continue this list, pull it out when you have leisure time and do something which you enjoy.
3. Don’t be selfish
Be friendly, helpful, giving at all times in your life.
4. Have a Plan and stick to it no matter if you are alone or in a partnership. And show interest to the plans of your partner.
So many people give their goals up when they are in a partnership and show little or no interest to the goals and interests of their partner. With the time this person has nothing specific to talk about and cannot follow what their partner is up to.
5. Don’t let yourself go no matter if you are alone or in a partnership. Always look your best and have yourself, your surrounding and your life in order.
It happens too often that when someone is married, does not care about himself anymore. They put on weight, wear old, too comfortable clothes and wonder that the spark of love has vanished.
6. Continue to be creative
After people meet their love, they get incredible ideas to surprise the other and they do things together, which they both appreciate. After marriage the creativity seems to have stopped. No surprises for the other anymore, no little presents, no flowers and the time together is sitting in front of the TV, which is so passive, instead of continuing to fill this time together with entertainment and adventure.
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